【美国】身体语言:判断求职者的七个姿势

Everyone has those moments when you suspect what a job candidate's telling you in an interview is a bold-faced lie. But without more evidence, it's hard to decide if it's a deal-breaker.

Enter Dr. Lillian Glass, a behavioral analyst, who's worked with the FBI to unmask body language signals of deception.

She recently authored the book The Body Language of Liars, and revealed the following actions are telltale signs someone's lying to you.

1. Shuffling feet

When a person shuffles their feet, it's a sign that they're nervous or uncomfortable and want to leave the situation. This is one of the clearest ways to detect a liar, according to Glass.

2. Sudden head shifting

If someone makes a sudden head movement after you ask them a question, you may be about to hear a lie.

3. Hand on or over the mouth

When a person doesn't want to deal with an issue or answer a question, they put a hand over their mouth. It's a sign they're trying to close off communication.

4. Heavy breathing

Ever seen a lie detector? It's trying to pick up on changes in a person's heart rate. When a person lies, their heart rate and blood flow change, which can cause someone to become a bit more out of breath than if everything were normal - hence, they begin to breath more heavily.

5. Covering up a vulnerable body part

When someone's testimony would hit a nerve with a defendant, the defendant would cover the front of his or her throat. Other body parts that may get covered: the head, chest or abdomen.

6. Constant blinking

Liars have apparently heard the phrase "look me in the eye and say it," too many times. As a result, they try to stare directly into your eyes in an attempt to get you to believe their tall tale. But because they want to look away, their body may compensate by blinking too much.

7. Excessive pointing

Liars tend to be hostile, and when someone gets hostile, they tend to point - a lot.

 

每个人都有那些时刻,他们会怀疑求职者在面试中告诉你的是否是一个厚颜无耻的谎言。但除了寻找更多的证据去证实,如何去判断他是否是一个搅局者其实是很难的。

走进行为分析师 Lillian Glass 博士的房间,她正在为 FBI 揭露身体语言姿势的骗术。

她最近出版了一本书,叫撒谎者的身体语言。以下的一些行为会向您揭示如何去判断一个人。

1 拖曳的步伐

当一个人拖着他的脚步,这就表示他现在处在一个紧张不舒服的状态并且很想逃离这个尴尬的处境。 Glass 博士说,这是其中一个最聪明的办法去鉴别他是否在撒谎。

2 、突然转头

如果在你提出问题之后这个人突然转头,你就有可能会听到一个谎言。

3 手放在嘴里或嘴上

当一个人不想去解决或回答这个问题时,他们会把手放在他们饿嘴上。这个姿势表明了他们正试图去结束这次交流。

4 粗重的呼吸

您是否曾经看见过测谎仪呢?它可以收集一个人的心率变化情况。当一个人在撒谎时,他们的心率和血流量会产生变化。和普通人相比这会导致他们有一些喘不过气来,因此他们会开始大喘气,呼吸急促。

5 掩盖一个脆弱的身体部位

当一个人的证词会伤害到被告的神经时,被告会握住自己的喉咙。其他的身体部位也有可能会覆盖:头部,胸部或者腹部。

6 不断的闪烁

说谎者会多次听到这句话 " 看着我的眼睛告诉我 " 。原因是他们希望能直接凝视你的眼睛,试图得到你的信任,相信他们所说的谎言。但由于他们想转移目光,所以他们的身体会补偿太多次的眨眼。

7 过度的指向

说谎者通常是怀有敌意的。所以当他们变得敌对时,他们会不停的用手指指向你。(翻译:沈逸文)

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